As far as addresses go, I DO NOT use my E BAY confirmed address for notes. I also rarely use Pay Pal either. So far I've not had an issue with communicating my wishes to any seller, sending a money order and having it shipped to work. I will not let notes sit in an unsecure mailbox at my house. This would be a deal breaker for me, and I would cancel any bid if this was not possible, regardless of the feedback I might get in the end. On a more positive note, note sellers are (so far) really great to deal with and totally understand.